It's best to use basic caution whenever you meet singles in person<
Regarding online dating safety, unfortunately, the
media tends to create mis-perceptions in people's minds about online
dating safety. The truth of the matter is that searching for love online
is as safe as doing it in any other way. In fact, because people tend to
act more carefully than they normally might, it ends up being the safest
method to meet people today.
Having said that, probably the most important time for you to be careful
is during your first meeting in person with someone.
Although you will probably feel very comfortable already, having spent
quite a bit of time chatting online via your favorite dating service
and/or talking on the phone, you shouldn't forget that you are in essence
meeting with a stranger.
So here are some good things to keep in mind when meeting someone for the
first time:
• Tell Someone About Your Date: Let a good friend know who you are
meeting, where you are going and when to expect you to return. You should
also consider calling and checking in with your friend at some point
during your date, as well as when you return home.
• If possible, bring a friend along: If you don't find it
difficult, then you should ask a friend to come along with you. There isn't
any harm in taking this precaution, and both your friend, and your new
date should understand your apprehension.
• Arrive Separately: You should always provide your own
transportation throughout the entire date --especially if you choose to
go to a new location which you're not familiar with. Under no
circumstance, should you have your new date pick you up at home.
• Meet singles in public: If you aren't able to bring a friend
along, then you should select a public place at a time of day when there
are other people around. This will provide a safe and comfortable
atmosphere for you both to get to know each other better.
• Keep it Short & Sweet: Make your first date an enjoyable one and
plan on spending an hour or two together. Take the opportunity to get to
know each other better in a relaxed environment. And remember, this is
supposed to be fun - so enjoy yourself!
• Sticky Situations: If you ever feel uncomfortable, in any
way, simply excuse yourself and either get assistance or leave the
location entirely. Never feel embarrassed about protecting your
well-being. Anyone who truly values your friendship, will support your
instincts 100%.
